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Never Marry A Man Who Has These 15 Habits

Never marry a man who is the complete opposite of your imaginary Mr. Right because that would be a great folly. Imagine being married to a man who thinks you are not worthy of wonderful things, does not like to be seen with you and thinks of you as nothing more than his wife.

Isn’t it like the worst dream ever?
Mind you, judging people for doing bad, immoral things is justified. So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 15 habits. If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case closed because once you read these habits, you will realize that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him.

1. Narrow-mindedness:

The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.

That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life h-ell.

2. Hates Animals:

Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous even reading the phrase hates animals’? Who on earth hates animals? Nobody does; that is the answer.

So if he does not like animals without any good reasons like allergies etc and makes you choose between him and your pet, always choose your pet.

Not having a fondness of them is fine but literally wanting to be away from them because they are animals’ shows a great lack of empathy. You will be living with a cr-uel human animal if you decide to marry him.

3. The Relationship Rules Mean Nothing To Him:

He likes to play wild, and it is not a good sign. You tell to not do something and he does exactly the same. Not only is that disrespecting you but it is completely disregarding the relationship rules.

Every relationship has some ground rules that need to be followed naturally by both the partners but if he goes off the line again and again without ever paying heed to your concerns about them, he is totally not worth marrying.

Absolute disrespect should never be appreciated or given a second chance.

4. Breaks Promises:

A little mistake or a sometimes forgetful mind can be excused and even a big promise, if broken once in a blue moon, can be forgiven too but if the frequency of promise-breaking increases visibly then it is time for some cleaning and washing.

If he nods vigorously while making promises and easily breaks those only days later, it obviously means that he is making a fool out of you. That is not a good relationship to be in so reject that promise-breaker and find a keeper.

5. Gives You Secondary Treatment:

It gets messy when one of the two people is more into the relationship than the other one. It begins to fall apart since it is all about giving, taking, sharing and receiving, just like Joey said. So if you are the one giving your best to the relationship while he sleeps peacefully and does nothing at all, it means that you do not mean to him what he means to you.

There is no point taking such an empty connection along so do not marry the guy who gives you secondary treatment when you deserve to be the first priority.

6. Doesn’t Have Moments of Epiphany:

A guy who constantly thinks that everything he does is utterly right and his decisions can never be wrong needs to have a reality check. It is, indeed, cr-uel to force someone to change for you and should not be done.

But a person ought to realize his mistakes and be ready to make changes in himself accordingly for the sake of goodness. If he never experiences any moments of epiphany and never doubts anything he does, his cocksure behavior can be harmful to you as well.

7. Excessive Excuses:

Excuses are only a way of saying

I am sorry but I had more important things to do and you do not matter to me as much as you think you do.

If he has more excuses than reasons and they are all too senseless to be true, he is only trying to lie to you and if not, only feeling too lazy to include you in everything. Such behavior in the guy you are about to marry can be a turn-off and should be a turn-off.

8. Keeps The Fi-ghts Alive:

Young lonely woman on bench in park

Fi-ghts are good, even healthy, but not if they never end. It is completely okay to voice your opinions in front of your partner even if they oppose his own and it is okay to have a discussion from two different points of views.

But if he never agrees to settle on a decision and is not willing to let you keep your opinion, he is the problem. Both the people involved have to respect each other differences. If he likes to the opposite and keeps it alive, you need to move away.

9. Finish the Conversations:

He is a great talker, it is awesome, but as soon as it comes to you telling a story or sharing something, he cuts you down like it does not matter. He is the conversation finisher.

Not only do these habits show a lack of conversation skills but also show your insignificance in his opinion, how your turn does not matter and he is better off without you pitching in on something.

You don’t want to be ignored like that for the rest of your life; never make the mistake of marrying such a conversation finisher.

10. Liar:

Small lies, cute lies and insignificant lies that are told for good are excusable and even justifiable but lies that affect your relationship and are spoken again and again need to be dealt with. If not the lies then the liar needs to be confronted.

Relationships are all about trust and believing in each other. If he takes that away by breaking the code of taking confidence in each other then he needs to be replaced. Lies da-mage a relationship slowly like termites da-mage wood.

11. Clingy:

We would all just get ourselves a child to go on a date with if we wanted someone to depend on us 24/7. When men cling to us for more than usual, it either means that they have insecurity issues or they don’t trust you with your actions. Clingy partners are a no-no!

A mature relationship requires two independent people who can bear being away from each other for some time for the sake of their busy adult lives. Clingy is not normal.

See how people reacted on this post:

Kenny Louries: “Fairly reasonable… And truth be told but it must go both ways

Abhinav Hariharno: “What if the same thing a girl does???”

Jemimah Padilla: “I’d rather be single than stress myself in a relationship.”

Gwin Willis: “Mark Twain famously said “You don’t need an excellent memory if you tell the truth”. You do not have to remember the cover story as well as the real story.”

Mira Avella: “Don’t date after 2 weeks of knowing each other kids! You have to know him WELL first. That tooks at least a year or more, trust me.”

This article was originally published on the todayreport24.com

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